Keller, TX ~ August 7th, 2010

Keller, TX ~ August 7th, 2010
The "eight of us" together w/ our NEW babies after our losses...

Living Proof ~ June 13th, 2009 ~ Pittsburgh, PA ~ Beth Moore

Deeper Still ~ June 28th, 2008

Deeper Still ~ June 28th, 2008
The "eight of us" w/ Beth Moore (w/ empty arms)...

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Are you kidding me?

This post is for Krissy (which may or may not even be your name) who was ever so kind to comment me...and because I do not want to address this comment here...I ask you, Krissy, to please email me directly.

jane7doe7@aol.com

I'll just wait to hear back from you...

Thanks!

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Chrissy,

I wrote a whole thing this morning and then it didn't post. :o( Let's hope I can still get my words out. Grieving is unique to everyone. I don't believe that two people grieve the same way. I remember being exactly where you are now in your grief. The anger, the pain, the physical and emotional exhaustion. I used to get so angry when people told me that with time it would get better. I wouldn't use the word better, it just get's different. It ebbs and flows. God will always carry you through even in your darkest moments of grief, pain, and anger. I hope you feel all the prayers being said for you and they help lift you up. The loss of a child is the worst journey to walk but God has a plan for all of us. If you have time I hope you can read some of my blogs I am brutally honest in my grief but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I'll always be here praying for you, Vinne, and your children and forever carrying Eva in my heart!!
God Bless!
Tamm Mom to Angel Skye

This wasn't as good as my post 1st thing this morning before I went to school and taught 30 4th graders how to write all day. Obviously, their bad writing skills rubbed off on me today! LOL

Mandy said...

Thinking of you. Hoping you will have more good days than bad very soon.

Mandy
GA
www.madelinegracehopkins.blogspot.com

Thank you for always remembering my Madeline.

Anonymous said...

Are some people seriously trolling these blogs looking to add on to someone's unimaginable hurt? I am so sick of reading some of these cruel comments, this is not about YOU, nobody invited YOU. We are here to support these gentle, gentle people, oh Chrissy I am so sorry, the devil can take so many different forms, I don't comment often but I pray for your family constantly, we support whatever you need during this painful journey, God bless you, and I hope something makes you smile and laugh out loud today...

N. Palhinha
Brampton, Ontario

boltefamily said...

Chrissy,

Don't let others sneak in and cause doubt or confusion. You are doing an amazing job! This is very hard work and it is very clear that you are a great mom and wife and are doing a wonderful job even through the grief. Some people just don't get it!

I love you girl!

Kristy

Laurie in Ca. said...

Hi Chrissy,

Stopping in tonight to let you know I am thinking about you and praying. I am so sorry that nasty people even have the nerve to comment here. Please don't let them discourage you from the one place that brings you encouragement and support. I love you girl and you are doing so good.

Love and Hugs, Laurie in Ca.

Anxious AF said...

Praying for you....
The picture of you holding Eva, I see you in her.

Anonymous said...

and what is wrong with telling her to consider that her husband has feelings too? she is not the only one suffering this loss! Get over it.

Anonymous said...

I too agree, you act as if YOU are the ONLY one hurting, my gosh open up and see that your whole family is hurting, just because YOU carried her doesn't mean it hurts you more then him. I don't see anything WRONG with what she posted, jeeze girl GET OVER YOURSELF.

Alicia said...

Chrissy,

After reading the above comments, (and wishing I could delete them before you had to read them) this post came to mind from Stephanie at Notes from the Soul. Her post was wonderful and soooo true!

Esp. this part of it...

"Girls, I'm tired. I'm so tired of the way we Christian sister's beat each other up. You know what I'm talking about? Life is hard enough, we don't need to walk into church and feel like we are stepping into a boxing ring!"

Here is the link for the rest of the post...it speaks volumes....
I just hope that whatever load "Anonymous-es" are carrying in their lives, they will find they can "cast all their cares on Him for He careth for them". I am sorry they feel that they can burden you with more hurt.

http://notesfromthesoul.blogspot.com/2008/04/excuse-me.html

Chrissy, I am sorry this is so long. I want to encourage you, my friend! God is faithful to carry you through!!

As always, I am here if you need me!

Love you,

Alicia

Anonymous said...

We're here for you Chrissy, still holding you and your family up. Never mind the anonymous cowards. For your own sake, consider taking your blog private or by invitation only, these cowards are pure poison.

N. Palhinha

Les Trois Aces... said...

Wow, those comments are so nasty. I CANNOT believe anyone could be so heartless, selfish, cold and plain stupid. They obviously need a life, or an opportunity to climb out from under their grimy rock. I would feel sorry for them if it wasn't that they are kicking someone who is already down. In France, we call that bullying. And everyone knows that a bully is just a very weak, frightened, feable, usually not very bright little person in disguise. Chrissy, hold you head up high and continue being the great person you are. The Bernard Bunch is VERY taken with your little Angel Eva.

Princess Abigail said...

Sorry Chrissie, the above comment is actually mine (Alison, of the Bernard Bunch). I forgot I was registered in a private community blog when I made the comment : my apologies! What an airhead!). So I fully take responsibility for the following comment!


Wow, those comments are so nasty. I CANNOT believe anyone could be so heartless, selfish, cold and plain stupid. They obviously need a life, or an opportunity to climb out from under their grimy rock. I would feel sorry for them if it wasn't that they are kicking someone who is already down. In France, we call that bullying. And everyone knows that a bully is just a very weak, frightened, feable, usually not very bright little person in disguise. Chrissy, hold you head up high and continue being the great person you are. The Bernard Bunch is VERY taken with your little Angel Eva.